Thursday, February 13, 2014

L O V E

Love, love, love everybody’s talking about love! Happy Valentine’s Day to all of you! Being a woman who has always admired love, I often contemplate how a four letter word can affect the entire human race. It’s a powerful thing and does some bizarre things to people. I guess that is the mystery of it! And my reason for it being a mystery is this; we all see it in a diverse way. If I were to ask several people what does love mean to them they would most likely give different definitions; Complex, Good, Painful, Warm Fuzziness, Enthusiasm, Happy, Excited, Loyal etc. would probably be some of the answers. However, your interpretation of “Love” it is still all the same: It leaves us feeling some type of way!

Yes, I have been hurt, rejected and betrayed but somehow I’m still in love with love. Crazy hun..? The explanation that I can give is “For God so Love the world that he gave his only Son, that whosoever believeth in him shall not perish but have everlasting life. - John 3:16”.  That explains it all! For those that believe already know that is some prevailing love. To give up your only child to die for humanity that is just incredible. And for those that don’t believe, this is just my conclusion based on evidence that has been proven over and over again in my life.

There is no way I could gather up that much love, considering my love can often times be unbreakable. There is absolutely no comparison. God showed his “Love” for me Aggressively by sending his only son to die for TricaB. Knowing that I don’t always do right, God still loves me! Often times I ignore him by not saying “Thank You” or go an entire day without talking to him. After all of that he still turns around and blesses me. Many blessings I received I didn’t even ask for but because I love God in return he loves me. Just by granting me another day to live shows me his Love!
I am not ashamed of what I believe because had it not been for God taking out his time to see about me I would not be here. Yes God is my first love and for that he has my heart forever and always!

Now… for those of you wondering, which I am sure you are…Besides the love for God, Does TricaB have a Valentine? Well...When I find out I will let you know!! (Drops the mic and leaves the stage…) Ha-ha!!…But seriously, I have been “In Love” and I still believe in it! It’s a beautiful thing when you are with the RIGHT person! If you want to know more about my story check it out here: http://tricasworlds.blogspot.com/2013/09/who-are-you-with.html.

I believe in order to have a great relationship it starts with knowing “thyself”. Being comfortable in the skin you were born in. Loving thyself first is so important. How can I be a great mate if I don’t know myself? Or looking for someone else to make me feel good or to validate my existences. Those that know the “Real TricaB” will tell you I LOVE me some me! The picture I am trying to paint is this: Love yourself, know yourself, be happy with yourself and I guarantee you will attract “The RIGHT” mate that WILL respect you. I must add don’t settle for anything!  Loving “thyself” and knowing your self -worth will NOT allow you to just settle! Just because they are fine as wine means absolutely nothing. Trust me I had one of those, “No Bueno”!

 I can truly say that I am comfortable in my own skin. TricaB is flawed and still a work in progress but that is the beauty of it! It took me a long time to get to this point. More importantly, I like what I see when I look in the mirror. Not really interested in the validation of others to approve of me because people are flaky. Of course it feels good to be adored, admired, & appreciated but keep in mind, one minute they like you the next they hate you! But yet and still “I LOVE”

Enjoy this Valentine Day Weekend! Take the time to love the people that are dearest to you not just today but every day! 

“Love talked about can be easily turned aside, but love demonstrated is irresistible”- W. Stanley Mooneyham

Peace and Blessings!



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